All praise is for Allaah the Exalted, we praise Him, seek His Help, and ask for His forgiveness. We seek refuge in
Allaah the Exalted from the evils of our souls and the evils of our actions.Whoever Allaah the Exalted guides,
there is none that can misguide them, and whoever He misguides then there is none that can guide them.
I bear witness and testify that there is no deity worthy of worship besides Allaah the Exalted, alone, with no
partners, and that Muhammad, sallallaahu `alayhi wa sallam, is His Slave and Messenger.
Allaah the Exalted Said (what means): · "O you who have believed, fear Allaah as He should be feared and do
not die except as Muslims [in submission to Him]." [QUR’AAN 3:102]
· "O mankind, fear your Lord, who created you from one soul and created from it its mate and dispersed from
both of them many men and women. And fear Allaah , through whom you ask one another, and the wombs.
Indeed Allaah is ever, over you, an Observer." [QUR’AAN 4:1]
· "O you who have believed, fear Allaah and speak words of appropriate justice. He will [then] amend for you your
deeds and forgive you your sins. And whoever obeys Allaah and His Messenger has certainly attained a great
To proceed :
The blessing of family and children is one of the greatest worldly blessings that Allaah the Exalted has favored
us with. It is obligatory to thank Him, Who gave us favors, and we must use those things that He gave us in
accordance to what He ordered and legislated.
That is why one of the greatest means of expressing thankfulness, preserving the blessing, and prolonging
family ties in the Hereafter is to call them to the truth, correct them, strengthen them through beneficial
knowledge, make them used to performing good actions, warning them from what harms them, and protect them.
Allaah the Exalted Said (what means):
"And those who believed and whose descendants followed them in faith - We will join with them their
This treatise revolves around this important topic and the great benefits of building an upright and settled family.
A person’s family comprises their roots, surroundings, environment, it is their aid that defends them, those that
keep their secrets, know them the best, and are usually those who are most keen on benefitting them. Allaah the
Exalted Said regarding differences arising between two spouses (what means):
"And if you fear dissension between the two, send an arbitrator from his people and an arbitrator from her people
. If they both desire reconciliation, Allaah will cause it between them." [QUR’AAN 4:35]
The most important benefit and favor that a person must be keen on obtaining for their family, children, and
relatives, is that they save their family from the Fire. Allaah the Exalted enjoined this in His Book, Saying (what
"O you who have believed, protect yourselves and your families from a Fire whose fuel is people and stones,
over which are [appointed] angels, harsh and severe; they do not disobey Allaah in what He commands them but
do what they are commanded." [QUR’AAN 66:6]
Thus, in order to help accomplish this objective, our discussion will be regarding the means one can take to save
their family and children from Hellfire, and the way to preserve their homes, so that they are purified of everything
that angers Allaah the Exalted. We ask Allaah the Exalted for divine aid and soundness in our endeavors.
Allaah the Exalted Said (what means): "And those who say, "Our Lord, grant us from among our wives and
offspring comfort to our eyes and make us an example for the righteous." [QUR’AAN 25:74]
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